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8:31 PM Posted by Aroah

Born                                            Cry







Fall



              Laugh









Hit

               Pain                              Inspire                                   Lie





                             New                                                                                        Gold











Ambition                                                  Two-Faced











Love





Voices                                                                                                            Depression







Tears Smile                                        Me







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Aim





Fire









                             Water





Now

                              Never





                                                                                      Past                                                           Future     Moment





Faith







Despair                                                         Hope                                            Trust





Belief



Music


Dance


Stories


                                 Clay                               Act


Success


Sun Moon

                                    Failure





                                    Friendship







Mood swings







                                           Destruction





Joy





                             Blood





Give up



Give up



Give up





Never



Tunnel





Light



Light



Light



Light

MCC- A Chapter to Cherish

7:59 AM Posted by Aroah

And she asks me if I ever bunked college in the one and a half months I studied in MCC...

Many years ago as I was struggling with my A Levels, my cousin invited me to his hall day at MCC. I was really wary about going, being the social outcast I was. But I went along nevertheless with my uncle and aunt. We reached a few hours early, and  so we decided to go around the college. 

I was taken aback at the sheer size of the campus and all that I saw.  It was like discovering a whole new world. The trees, the plants, the deers and the absolute silence at some places. After going on rounds, we went for the function. And that was top notch as well, with guys from Heber going all out and giving us a night to remember.  I had decided that night as always in the spur of the moment, to go back and study there someday.

I forgot about MCC soon, and was then busy trying to get through my A levels. After a series of exams, it was time for me to select a college, and being in Chennai, I knew I didn't want to go anywhere else but MCC. I knew there was a catch, that there was a possibility that I would have to come back out.



A Levels, the results always came after the admissions were almost done, and I knew the moment I had written my exams that there was a possibility that I would not clear them. But then again, that did not stop me from taking the chance and taking a provisional admission in MCC.

And there I was, a temporary student with no id card but a sheet which I had to carry around with me.

I always tried going around twenty minutes early to college so that I could see the college when it was quiet and deserted. I would sit by the water tank or stroll down the roads.The mornings were filled with a deep sense of gratitude, of being able to be there. I had to constantly struggle with my mind, to let it know that I can't get attached, that I might have to leave. And that did hinder me in taking everything that I saw fully in.

So what were the good memories? I cannot talk about MCC and not talk about two people that have become a part of my life. One with his raw energy and straight forwardness and the other with his myriad of talents. They were my first friends in MCC and I was part of a trio that we unconsciously made up. I remember the times when we almost fell down from the table laughing, the english classes where we tried to win the fifty rupees prize, the maggi noodles, the basic tamil classes and the almost ever lingering sarcasm, wit and fun!

So what was it about MCC? I never really count put a finger on it, it probably was the campus, the culture, the diversity, the legend, the name. It could have been anything, but there was an unconditional agreement in my mind when it came to MCC.  There were times when I would laugh out loud with a crowd, and there were times when I found that this was the place to be for a person whose best company was himself. There were beautiful sights all around and there were all kinds of sounds to be heard. My favorite part in the whole college was the long roads.

I left soon. It was a hard few days, knowing that there will be no going back for a while. I lost myself in work and tried to keep my thoughts away.

In many ways, I feel as much as a student of MCC as any graduate would. I feel like the lottery winner who won the small cash prize because the last two digits matched with the winning lottery combination. I lived through my friends, I listened to them talk about culturals, teachers, students, attendance and I devoured it all. There was a tinge of sadness when I heard it, but then it was overcome with my desire to know more.

What was the point of it all?  Maybe if not for MCC I would have not found those two friends, if not for MCC I would have not known how college life would have been. Maybe there was no reason at all. Now to think of it, I have no regrets.

In the end I know for a fact that my heart belongs to MCC because as the guy wearing the 'sexy librarian glasses' came on stage and as the guy with 'a laugh that makes you want to laugh' egged the librarian on at Airtel Thetricals I heard my mind say - Go MCC!!!

  

Escape

7:36 PM Posted by Aroah





Everything I owned was taken away,

I complained.

Everything that I did was never seen,

I sulked.

Everything that I am went unnoticed,

I lied.

Everything I wanted was beyond me,

I stole.

Everything I tried kept falling apart,

I cried.

Everything I knew was forgotten,

I justified.

Everything I had was not enough,

I changed.


I escaped, every single time.

But then, I forgot that I all had to do was,

Smile

For I was still alive.

The Choice

7:30 AM Posted by Aroah


I gasped for air as another wave came crashing down on us. I could feel Victor’s hand slip a bit and I held his tiny fingers tighter. I looked around for something to hold unto, the waves were receding and we just had to hold on a bit longer. Roy’s cry was piercing through my ears and Victor’s constant shout of "Mother" kept sending a cold chill down my spine. I held Roy’s two year old body against my bosom, and pulled Victor closer. Another wave and we would be swept away, unless we found something to hold unto. My eyes studied wildly, I could see people struggling, trees falling and animals swimming. Just as I closed my eyes in despair, I saw a big log.


That was it.


I knew if I could reach that log, we could stay afloat. I started wading towards the log; it was about a meter away. I pulled the weight of my kids along with me as my tired body groaned. I looked at the sea again, and to my horror saw the tide rise and come towards us again. There was not much time; I had to make it to the log. My body wouldn’t move, it had gone numb with shock. I looked at the log; it was just a little far away. The tide was getting closer, and as I tried to move again, I found the solution to my problem, and it hit me harder than a high tide.


I had to let go.



I had to let go of one of them if I had to make it to the log, there was no other way. My mind engaged in the quickest of duals with its emotions. I knew I had to make the choice; time was running out, better two than none I reasoned. I didn’t think if I could live with it. I couldn’t bear to think of that.



I looked at both of them, they had gone white with fear, and had their eyes closed. I closed my eyes as well and slowly let go of Victor’s hand and pushed myself towards the log. I felt my mind die when I heard him scream in horror.



We reached the log.


It was evening when I woke up, I found myself wrapped in a thick blanket. Roy was lying next to me, sleeping peacefully. I sat up straight and looked around. We were in our house, and nobody was around. As I looked for Victor I remembered, and felt my heart break open. I wept for him, I wept for myself. I didn’t think of reason now, all I thought of now was murder. I killed my child, I abandoned him.


As I silently wept, I felt a hand on my shoulder.


I looked up at the touch and saw Victor standing next to me alongside his father. His face was white, his eyes were blank. I couldn’t believe my eyes for a second, and I ran my hands through his hair to be sure. He was alive, he was saved.



“He managed to hold onto a rock, and we found him unconscious later.”


I pulled him towards me, hugged him tight and smothered him with kisses. He was not dead, he was saved. Gratitude rushed through my body and I was overwhelmed with joy. As I looked at him again, I felt his grip weaken. He looked at me blankly, his lips were trembling.


“Why did you leave me mom? Don’t you love me?”


He was not saved, and neither was I.

I have you

11:09 AM Posted by Aroah


Dear friend,

I do not know you. Would I ever know you? I do not know. But then what is knowing anyway? Is is knowing what your favorite color is or what your biggest fear is? Or is it something else? Is it knowing you as who you are, as seeing you without looking at you. Then, I might know you.

I sit by my window, looking at the sky wondering where you are. I haven't met you, I do not know your name, know your race. I know nothing, but I know you. I know that we are the same, we share the same emotions. I know you're out there somewhere feeling as I feel, laughing as I laugh and crying as I cry.

I always felt I was alone, that my misery was mine alone, that my problems were the biggest of them all and most unique. But then I was wrong, I'm sure you share the same problems as me, the same pain and the same anxiety. After all, 
pain is born of one thing alone, denial.
So here I am, trying to reach out to you, trying to tell you that I understand how you feel just like how you will understand as well. Let's try to see each other as we are and know more about our pain, let us find answers to troubling questions by knowing each other, by believing, by keeping faith.

It's a hard life, but then I'm not alone. I have you.

Love,

Your friend

The Falling Man

11:06 AM Posted by Aroah


The plane had crashed into the building a few minutes ago, the World Trade Center was falling victim to fire and shock.

There was smoke all around, people were screaming and I could hear distant noises of tumbling objects or maybe even people. I was blinded by the thick smoke, I couldn't see anything but a very vague picture of the room. I struggled to breathe, I knew I had to get out, but I didn't know how. I felt people brush past me, some held unto to me in panic. The voices were piercing into my head; I shook my head and looked at the distant windows and was shocked at the sight.

There were people hanging out of the window gasping for air.They were screaming, their bodies half in and half out. I shuddered as I thought of the height, we were on the ninety first floor. I rushed towards a window, I felt my legs stamp on legs and heads, and I almost gagged. Everybody was trying to reach the windows, and it had become a stampede.

And then it began.

People started falling as other people rushed towards the window. Those that tried to hold on with their weakening fingers lost grip and started falling; their screams ran through my blood and froze it. I fell on my knees and covered my head in horror. People stamped on me and pushed me away, again people kept screaming, some screams falling farther away from me.

The smoke was getting thicker, and I knew the fire was going to reach us soon, we were going to be reduced to ashes. The passage way was blocked, the stairs were blocked, these windows were the only source of air but not escape. All the windows almost had an identical scenario. As I scanned the room, I saw the familiar big cupboard, and suddenly remembered the window behind it. I shoved past people and made towards the cupboard, trying hard to catch some air. I could feel my head lighten and my legs weakening. I reached the cupboard and pushed it aside. There was the window, I opened it and was greeted with a cold breeze that almost made me cry with relief. Just then a big flame flew across the room, the fire was catching up.

A woman rushed towards the window.

"We are going to be burned!" She screamed, pulling at my collar.

"Relax" I tried mumbling.

"Relax? Relax?" She screamed back.

"We can get out." I told her.

"No we can't. NO NO NO"

She looked around like a caged animal, and then she looked down from the window. I felt her grip on me lighten as she slowly raised herself and sat on the window. I didn't understand what she was trying to do, I was too numb.

I could see fear written all over her face.She looked me in the eye, and I saw her let herself go.

I screamed in horror, I leaned forward, and looked down to see her tumbling body. She let go, I couldn't believe it. I cried out in desperation. My phone rang just then, I had forgotten about it all along.

It was my daughter.

"Pa, you alright?"

"Yes, yes I am. Give the phone to Mom"

"John, Where are you? What's happening?"

"I'm stuck Lucy, I'm stuck. I can't get out of here, the fire is going to get to me Lucy. Lucy.."

"John what are you saying!John get out of there, John please"

"I have to go Lucy, Lucy... Oh god.."

I threw the phone away, I couldn't bear to hear her voice.

I thought of the woman that had jumped, and looked down at the distant road.

Should I jump?

'Don't you know that you yourselves are God's temple and that God's Spirit lives in you?If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him; for God's temple is sacred, and you are that temple.'

The verse from Bible slowly played out in my head; I cannot commit suicide, I cannot kill myself, I will be damned.

I looked at the flames, and fear struck through me. Why do the only two choices that I have, lead to death?'

I would be damned to hell if I jump. I cannot be burned alive. It hit me then, I was going to die. Yes, I was going to die. This was the end. The flames grew stronger, I knew I had only minutes. I looked outside at the distant sky.

My head burst at the injustice of this, what had I done wrong?

I sobbed, uncontrollably. I wept for my daughter and wife, for my mother and friends. I let my hands feel around for the phone, I couldn't find it, I punched the wall in frustration. More people started coming towards the window, they were hanging out of it. But then they had to let go, from faraway the almost helpless look in their eyes ran through me like venom.

I wanted to get away from here, I cannot suffocate anymore, I had to get out. I had to jump. This was not suicide, I would not be damned, doesn't a man have the right to choose his way of death when he has no other means? What if I was saved? What if I was alive even after I fell ninety floors? Shouldn't I give myself a chance? I knew that was not a possibility, but I wanted to hope. I wanted to try, I wanted to escape from the fire. I would rather be burned in hell, than be burned here.

I climbed on top of the window and looked down, my legs shivered at the sight. I could see tiny specks of people and vehicles there. I closed my eyes, and prayed.

I hoped that no one would ever have to make the decision that I was about to make.

I tried hard not to think of Sara and Lucy, but their faces flashed across me, I felt a hand on mine. I looked right and saw a woman in her thirties staring right at me.

"This is the right choice, we choose our death, not those terrorists, we die with our heads held high, not by their flames."

Her words didn't reach me, and I felt her fingers pull me, I pulled back, and she let go. She fell, she was silent, not a sound came from her.

I knew I had to make the choice now, the fire had engulfed most of the room. I felt my legs shiver with anxiety, and then in a moment of total clarity, I let go.



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In memory of all those who had to make that difficult decision on 9/11. For all those who tried and failed.

Picture Courtesy and Inspired by - Richard Drew's "Falling Man"

Thank You - Tom Junod, Poorvaja and Shradha for their valuable inputs.